I had a conversation with a friend the other night that made me pause for thought. Like many other times this year, I am posting about race, but perhaps with a slightly different perspective this time.
She and I were talking about her experiences listening to minorities talk about racism, and she was the first one to express the majority perspective in a way that made me capable of seeing how very similar the two reactions are, even though they are very different in their expressions. To my friend, it seems as though minority speakers are attempting to marginalize her when they speak out against the ways that minorities have been and continue to be marginalized by the Caucasian majority in the
Her response raised my awareness that one of the big problems in this whole debate is that both sides feel marginalized by the other, and neither side has much of an awareness of how the other side feels. I have been caught in the middle for some time now, but I think my sympathies have tended to live with the minorities because I have felt like the majority groups tend to be the oppressors. While I still think that is true, I realize now in a much more powerful way, how minorities marginalize the majority by making them feel like they are worthless in the same way that they have been oppressed.
In light of my friend’s reaction, and in a desire to attempt to bridge the gap so that conversation on race and oppression can take place in a more fruitful way, let me offer a couple of stories that may help those of you who either are Caucasian or for some other reason don’t understand the importance of the race discussion. As you read each of these stories, place yourself in it and imagine what your reaction would be.
1) You are a white African in
2) You live in
3) You have recently moved to
4) You are an English-speaking Canadian who moves to French-speaking
Each of these stories comes out of the stories of what has been happening around the world lately, and if you can understand and feel the anger of each of these situations, then you understand what it feels like to be a minority living in the
Two stories in the recent days have brought to the forefront the issues of race again. After the SOTU, I watched the Daily Show with the same friends. While I wasn’t sure that some of it was in good taste, I wasn’t that disturbed until they showed the response by the LA mayor who was speaking in Spanish as the response to the latino population. As he was telling the people to join in and stand up to work for a better country because we are all one people and all one nation, they voiced over his speech making fun of the fact that he was latino. If they reacted the same way to other responses, I might not have been so angry, but the response they gave to the white responders was based on what they were saying instead of on their race.
The second instance that has disturbed me was an article in Duke’s newspaper about a musical group from sunny Bakersfield , CA (yes, CA, so think twice before you say that racism is no longer a problem in the West). They are targeting 11-12 year olds with the message of White Nationalism because they know that is one of the most influential ages. They have racially based songs, and they model for White Nationalist clothes lines. Do me a favor, and read the entire article and think about how you would feel if you were one of the many non-white people reading this article. Here are a couple of notable quotes for you:
”The name of the band is derived from the family's white Prussian ancestry along with the color of the girls' eyes. The girls have also said the name references a chemical that they say was not found at concentration camp sites. "We think it might make people question some of the inaccuracies of the 'Holocaust' myth," the girls told Viceland.com.”
"I don't think that we wouldn't have criminals, although I believe that black people are more likely to be criminals, but I would just want the races to be separate, and I'd like this to happen peacefully.”
“April said that the media is mistakenly interpreting white nationalist beliefs as racist. "We don't necessarily think that we are the best race," she said. "Asians, for example, are generally smarter than us. They score higher on tests. However, white people are more capable and live better lives. We believe the white population is shrinking, and that we're losing autonomy. We've already lost it here in the state of California . The Mexicans are the plurality here, and it's disappointing to see the majority of a population going to a race that is clearly inferior to almost all other races."
“I laugh whenever people get really mad about us, because I think it just makes the anti-racists look kind of ridiculous."
Someone explain to me how this is not racist?
The one good thing that came out of this article was that it gave me a new perspective on the South. When I told a friend here who grew up in the South about this, she asked me if there were really people in
I guess in conclusion I want to say that yes, minorities should welcome in Caucasians and learn to live in and love their culture. They should learn to communicate with them and be patient enough to sit through their cultural ceremonies, even when they don’t care, in order to understand. But this is a two way street. If that is what the Caucasian population expects from the minorities, then the minorities have every right to expect it of them as well. That means that they need to make an effort to live in and love minority cultures, to learn about the languages and customs of the people, and to make an effort to sit through and learn about the ceremonies and traditions of other cultures, even when they don’t care about that culture, in order to understand those around them.